Where to Promote My Wares

Hi everyone, I'm still having a hard time trying to decide if Etsy is
where I should be selling. My problem is the fact that I feel my hands
are tied when it comes to promoting my site. Am I wrong, or is it true
that back linking is impossible? What about referring sites that I
really like? Can I mention them and put in their shop or item direct
link? What about the share button? I just want to be as proactive as I
can be, I want this little business to grow and want to do everything
possible to make that happening. I have been trying to decide about
getting my own website, but maybe the holidays aren't the correct time
to stir things up?Does anyone have a good site where you get the most bang for your buck? What about the market place on TSU Treasure Seekers
Unite? Does anyone sell on there or have any pros or cons to talk about?
I'm just frustrated, I'm a "can do" "will do" kinda ole girl. I'm
willing to give something my all. I want my enterprise to grow, I need
to be pointed in the right direction right now. Any and all comments
will be greatly appreciated! Donna,,Treemstreasures